My Husband is Better Than Yours!

So again, in recent times, there seems to be this tussle (sometimes silent, sometimes voiced), between ladies/women as to whose husband is better. And I’m certain that I’m not the only person who has noticed it or is peeved about it. Ok, here’s a married woman who is hurting deeply because her marriage isn’t going so well. She talks to God about it no doubt…

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“All Men Are Cheats”

Where I sit, I’m infuriated; hearing hogwash does that to me. My heart is racing – for two reasons though; one, I’m itching to put things right and secondly, I’m somewhat nervous. You would think that I should have gotten over this ‘pre-speech’ jitters but no, it still comes – every time! I adjust the lapels of my trendy blue suit, pull my skirt down,…

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Get Ready!

Ok, this post isn’t ‘as usual’. It’s different, it’s unconventional and it’s perhaps, not what you were expecting. But then, remember what BFT is all about – a place for believers who serve God exclusively; where we can talk candidly about the stuff going on in Church and in our lives and equally as important, where we tell the truth. BFT turned two yesterday, and…

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Let’s Talk ‘Virginity’

The Singles’ programme rounded up on Saturday night with Pastor Bode’s talk on, ‘The beauty of virginity.’ He read from Matthew 25 and spoke to the ladies at length; outlining the benefits of staying a virgin for the right man – ‘there would be no comparison between your husband and an ex’, he said, and more importantly, ‘you can proudly beat yourself on the chest…

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I Married You

Hi. Have you noticed how many people nowadays (especially among believers) are faking this, “I’m so happy in marriage… my husband/wife is the best in the whole world” thingy? It is pathetic; it’s just like ‘dying in silence’. Inside, a wounded caged animal but outside, a smiling, loving spouse. God help us oh because marriage isn’t meant to be endured, it’s meant to be enjoyed….

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Not Good Enough

It was a beautiful Sunday afternoon. The Church service had been awesome and Winifred was glad to have gone to Church, although she’d considered not going that morning when it had been threatening to rain. She said so to Comfort -friend and roommate, as she unlocked the door to the self-contained apartment they shared. Comfort’s reply was a short laugh and an ‘I told you…

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